Man, I feel you, on everything stated here. I'm small, too, and never get called anything but 'cute,' no matter how much I've dolled myself up, with Halloween this year as a prime example. Being seen as young and innocent, not being able to see over crowds, not finding pants that fit -- yes. Let's start a support group! 'Girls who are small and may in fact, sometimes, be cute -- but could KICK YOUR ASS.'